fix: derived-state determinism, error visibility, metrics naming, HTTP hardening

- rebuild: fold observations per fingerprint in a total order
  (hcl DESC, node_id DESC, id DESC) so two nodes with identical logs
  rebuild identical entries (was: arbitrary bare-column row, merge-order
  dependent)
- threads: CreateThreadCluster uses INSERT OR IGNORE + existing-id
  fallback — concurrent auto-threaders converge instead of hitting UNIQUE
- errors surfaced instead of swallowed: scanEntries returns rows.Err(),
  Stats() fails fast on query errors, AutoLinkThreadObservations /
  linkTemporalNeighbors / golden-thread linking propagate failures,
  AddThreadNote + LinkObservationToThread write under one tx,
  watch records session upsert failures
- gossip client: push checks HTTP status and reports errors (a broken
  push direction no longer looks like a silent success); gossip diff
  gets a 10s timeout so a dead peer cannot hang the CLI
- ingest: failed source sweeps (obsidian/browser/gitea) are logged,
  and -d's help text now states its file-only scope
- watch --quiet: fatal errors go to stderr instead of io.Discard
- main: cobra SilenceErrors/SilenceUsage (errors print once, usage is
  not dumped on runtime failures); knox mcp exits 0 on SIGINT/SIGTERM
- metrics: drop _total suffix from gauges (knox_observations,
  knox_entries, knox_projects, knox_sessions, knox_peers, knox_threads);
  _total stays on counters per Prometheus convention
- http: ReadHeaderTimeout + IdleTimeout on gossip, metrics, and web servers

tests: concurrent cluster-create idempotency, HCL-order rebuild fold
(both merge orders), push HTTP-error surfacing; full suite + -race pass,
gofmt clean

internal/server/server.go

@@ -42,7 +42,8 @@ func New(kdb *db.KnoxDB) *Server {
 
 func (s *Server) Serve(addr string) error {
 	log.Printf("[knox] web UI at http://%s", addr)
-	return http.ListenAndServe(addr, s.mux)
+	srv := &http.Server{Addr: addr, Handler: s.mux, ReadHeaderTimeout: 10 * time.Second, IdleTimeout: 60 * time.Second}
+	return srv.ListenAndServe()
 }
 
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